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People have made an art project out of cleaning their home. It is an intense and beneficial form of therapy. When you de-clutter your house, you are also cleaning off junk from your mind. A Japanese form of therapy involves several stages of cleaning out your own cupboard. In trying to go through the things you have been hoarding, you realize what you have been holding on to, and finally learn how to part with some memories of the past. This is an important step in achieving better mental health, and also growing up into a proper adult. Here are 10 suggestions on how to achieve a positive vibe in your home which will make you enjoy it even more! 1. BURNING SAGE What is a famous name in the chéf circles, this plant is used in cooking. Being found in abundance along the Mediterranean regions, this has many healing properties. If you burn sticks made of sage, and roam around the house, then you will be welcoming positive energy into your domain. Let this smell relax you as y...

Life is like a cannon that will keep battering the walls of your existence over and over again. The thing that separates the weak and the strong is the choice to be battered or to win. There will be situations where you will be overwhelmed by the feelings the moment presents to you. You will feel betrayed and bested by people who are not half the human being you are. You will feel defeated and lost. But then again, the choice is yours; to be battered or not. Real, strong people let fate do its job. This is simply because sometimes justice might just be out of your reach in life. If you are wise enough, you would do the same too. “Remember, what you do now will come back to you in the future. Life has a funny way of making you deal with what you make others go through.” Here are five reasons why karma is the best partner-in-crime you can have. 1. THERE ARE SOME BATTLES YOU JUST CAN’T WIN AND IT’S BETTER TO LET GO Life will present you with situations in which yo...

All of us that are a part of the human race, are constantly swimming in a vast pool of energy. It is invisible, but that does not mean that it isn’t there. Scientifically speaking, these are vibrations on the physical realm that cannot be destroyed, but only transferred. When a shift occurs, it will affect your psychology, and you must look to your sense of calling. Change can scare people, but it is essential. If you look at human evolution, the constant adaption has enabled us to survive. Similarly, all things need to keep evolving and changing to become better versions of themselves. As it is commonly understood, the same thing may be received differently by separate participants. Similarly, all people do not react the same way to a shift in energy fields. January was an interesting month with a lot of energetic happenings, and it all ends with unique and amazing experience –  The Super Blue Blood Moon! HAPPENING ON may 1ST, 2018, FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 1...

A lot of us know at least one strong woman that has everything going on for her except a romantic relationship. Or maybe you are one of them. These have found to be the reasons why such strong woman usually have the hardest time out of everyone when it comes to finding love in their lives: 1. BEING ALONE THAN WASTING TIME She would rather be alone than waste her or someone else’s time just to cure her loneliness. They will not commit just for the sake of it or from any peer pressure. 2. THEY LOOK AT THINGS VERY CLOSELY Even when they find someone worth spending time with, they will look closely because compatibility is not god given. It requires time to understand whether you actually gel with someone or not. For this considerate amount of effort is required from both the sides. 3. INDEPENDENCE They value and love their independence and will not let anyone try to limit it. At first the idea of sharing it is scary, but if she lets you in then you should be able to ...

There are certain things that predicate desirability in human beings. The notions are a result of stereotypes and years of social conditioning, of course. But we aren’t going to discuss the controversies surrounding those. Here, we will be enumerating ten qualities in women that make them desirable to men, because being attractive is not all it is, even though a lot of people assume it is just that. So, here goes: 1. THEY ARE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE (One of the controversial ones, because who defines what is attractive.) This does not really mean (just) an aquiline nose and an hourglass figure; it is simply that intangible quality that makes certain women plain amazing to look at. Philosopher Slavoj Zizek, had once cited how in a survey done in the USA, a majority of people found Cindy Crawford more desirable than Claudia Schiffer. The professor explains how that mole on Crawford’s face, which is in plain terms an imperfection, makes her more desirable. It is inex...

It is both problematic and overtly easy to dismiss men as wanting nothing other than steak and sex from you. These kinds of clichés are purposely spread everyday when it couldn’t be more opposite from the truth. Men aren’t all that complicated, but they are hardly as simple as you’d like to imagine. Like all humans, men too have emotional needs which are often forgotten because of the constant stereotypes of masculinity. We have simple desires, actually so simple, that women often miss the fine line between our stoicism and desolation from a lack of reciprocation. Here are ten things that men might find impossible to go without: 1. PUTTING A STOP TO DRAMA Everyone has the occasional free pass to have a freak attack over something that in retrospect might have been rather trivial. That does not mean we can take repeated scenes in front of our friends and family. 2. MUTUAL INTEREST IN SEX It is okay if you are not into it. We need to have sex, but we don’t need to...

A strong independent woman can either be a strong man’s best dream or a weak one’s worst nightmare. It completely depends on how you unleash her. As tempting as it sounds to be with a strong woman, it might not be as easy to handle them firstly because most men confuse ‘handling’ a strong woman with ‘controlling’ them. Only a wise man can treat a strong woman like a queen and still keep her head in place. To specify more, here are the 13 reasons why men won’t handle a strong independent woman: 1. YOU CAN’T BOSS HER AROUND She might allow you to order the dish of your choice but never mistake it as an allowance to boss around her. She makes her own decisions. It is the most vital part of her personality. She is smart and sure enough in herself to do her own thing and make her own decisions, and if you ever try to boss her around, it won’t end well. 2. SHE WILL ALWAYS CALL YOU OUT WHEN YOU ARE WRONG Don’t expect sugar-coated words and ignorance from a strong woman. If...